TLDR- Hello. So me (24f) and my partner (30m) have been together for about 4 years.
My Partner has recently received an SMS from an ex gf (from years ago) saying that she is in town and wants to grab a coffee. My first thought was absolutely not. No need. Why.
I bit of back story – she currently lives interstate and they maybe SMS once a year.
However, the mature person in me wants to accept the fact that two amicable adults can touch base every few years. What do I do and how to I best navigate sticking with my boundaries/ accepting someone for who they are (a very social person)?