So this is just a PSA because it seems like a lot of people are confused about this. In current day, most men enter a casual dating phase starting around age 30, maybe 28-29, and it lasts until age. 40-45. I see a lot of women dating men in their 30s and wondering why they don’t want to commit to anything.
There’s a bunch of reasons why this is I could go into. But this is just to clear up the confusion and false expectations a lot of women are having. It mostly doesn’t matter who you are or what your bring to the table. If he isn’t ready to commit it’s not gonna happen.
Yes I know there are some exceptions. But remember with dating you are dealing with the general public, not the outliers.
If you really want a man in his 30s for some reason, one thing you could do is a pick a lower income guy, like a CVS worker or something. Because they don’t have many options, they might jump at the chance to settle down with someone.