❤️PLEASE HELP ME W ADVICE/BOOST
so i started talking to the guy in like october ish and we were really closer and then i found out he had feelings for me. we still remained close but he thought it was best to stay friends, but keep in mind we still texted and talked literally all day every day. another girl, that we are both no longer friends with that he became really close with came between us which ruined our closeness and then we sort if just distanced, and then randomly he claimed to have feelings for someone else, but we were literally texting all day, every day so this confused me.
so we stopped talking for a bit, like we would talk, but not like we used to. we stopped completely talking for like 2 weeks tho i wanna say. which honestly i thought was because he like hated me which turns out, he thought i hated him. so we started talking again, and became super close again.
at first i didn’t really think anything of it, because he did end up becoming close with this other girl, which i did think there was something going on, but now that i really look at them, i know there isn’t, plus she is another relationship.
so we became close again, and i noticed he would want like me to walk with him, or wait for him, and just build conversations. this too me was really shocking yet overwhelming. he is also really respectful to me, such as holding doors for me, i could go on. he doesn’t really act like this with any other girl. he also recently started texted me which also caught me by suprise as well. he would send texts related to things he would send me when we were in our talking stage. he gets defensive about our friendship as well. he tells me he sees me as a good friend, but he treats me like im not just a friend, but not a relationship, if it makes sense.
i just feel weird but i can’t put a finger on it. i don’t know what it is. maybe its cause this is all happening so fast but im not sure. i need advice someone please help!!
is there a chance he still has feelings, but is trying to become close again?