I feel it I’m 34 haven’t had a serious relationship since college. I try but it seems everyone wants someone else’s or I’m not good enough. Hell I’m a part time writer and my novels are actually getting pretty popular locally and if still hasn’t helped with dating . I like Hispanic women I’ve been teaching myself Spanish, still doesn’t help really but I enjoy the language so I study it nonetheless. I don’t know why dating is so hard. What do people want? I just focus on my novels sale and my full time job and call it a day.