Basically, I feel like I’d be OK if I had children or not.
I have three little bros, and our mom and dad didn’t always have time to take care of them. I know it’s not the same thing, but I did a lot of “parenty” things.
Like, I take them to school, I cook for them, I buy them clothes and food, help pay the rent.
, and I take care of them often. I guess this was like a taste of what parenthood can be.
And we’ll, I think I’d be good either way. Again, I get that actually being a parent I’d way harder, but with the right partner I’d be willing to commit to a kid.
But I’d be fine with being childless too.
I guess my question is: is this a healthy outlook on this? I’d only commit to being a parent with a person I’d think would be a good parent, but I’d be willing to spend my life with someone who wouldn’t be a good parent, but doesn’t want kids anyway.