When’s the last time you approached a woman in a social setting? How did that work out?

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1. I wait tables sometimes to make ends meet. Recently double daycare bills had sent me back to it. There’s a kinda pricy local chain that always let’s me come back. This last time the manager said, “I’ve heard of you. No sleeping with people” This post is 100% bragging, but it usually went pretty well.

2. I approached one woman ever.

   Forgot what I said, but I noticed her looking thirsty at the gym and went to go talk to her.

   We’ve been married for almost three years.

   That’s also literally the entirety of my dating history.

3. 14 yrs of marriage so far. I was just tryna get laid, I dunno what the hell happened.

4. Like 12 years ago. Nothing came of it. 

5. I handed her my phone and asked her to punch in her number. She did and we even sent each other some flirty texts that evening while we were still in the lounge. But, it faded the next day and she stopped answering the day after.

6. Last Friday, local bar.

   Chatted for like 25 minutes, had some laughs. I just went home without trying to take it further.

7. 20 years ago. It didn’t work out.

8. I’ve approached many women in social settings. Got turned down by some. Went on a date or two with some. Dated a handful exclusively. Married the last one (20 years ago).

9. Almost everyday.

   Even if they are not interested in you at that moment, if you keep things light, you can generally get their instagram and go from there. Bonus points if you have six pack abs and your instagram is full of shirtless pics.

   Even if you dont get laid, you get a friend who might be a hairdresser and help you get a discount. Or they may be a lawyer and those come in handy. Make the interaction fun and flirty but light.

   Thats why I believe in looking good and dressing well even if I am just going to convenient store. If you look good and refined, women will get confidence boost by you approaching and talking to them. You make them feel good and they will remember that feeling for whole day. Then you just slide into their DMs when they are riding that good feelz high and make plans to meet.

10. September 20th 2013. I am married her a little over a year later and happy as ever to call her my wife.

11. It was a while back.

    We fucked.

12. i don’t approach random women i just naturally let conversations happen when they happen

13. Since before Covid, and nothing happened, I said hi she said oh hell no.