(19F) recently i’ve been able to finally achieve orgasms through a dildo. i’ve had only a few orgasms since the first one but every time i cum, i squirt. and its a LOT. this never happened whenever i would cum through clit stim but this time it seems quite uncontrollable whenever i do fun time w my dildo
i plan on having sex with an old friend of mine soon and i really, really don’t wanna end up making a huge mess when i cum. i know i can put towels down, get waterproof sheets or whatever but i don’t wanna go through the hassle with all that. also i genuinely just don’t like making a huge mess in general. i know sex is pretty messy but i probably wouldn’t mind if it wasn’t soooo much.
i’ve tried going to the bathroom b4 fun time but that didn’t work at allll. still made a mess in my bathtub and it felt like it came out of no where! should i do kegel exercises ? try my best to hold back when i cum (even though i feel like i cant control it) ? or do i just have to accept it ? i really wanna find a solution to this, i don’t wanna empty half of my bladder every single time i cum while having sex/using a dildo 😭