My boyfriend [23M] (we have been in a 2-year relationship now) looks at other women and when I noticed that I simply asked him. He says he loves me but then he also said that he gets to these women (doesn’t pursue them) but checks them out (from top to bottom). I was furious, since then I am unable to feel safe around him and I am constantly on my toes around him to see who is he now looking at. I have begun to compare myself with those women. It makes me question what I don’t have for him to go check out these people? I have expressed my concerns to him but he said that he doesn’t know why he does it but he said he’ll take his time to figure out this habit of his. I do not want to leave him, but I constantly feel anxious around. What should I do?
TL;DR : My boyfriend checks out other women while looking at their body parts not ogling at them but subtly checking them out.