I (21M) matched with this girl (19F) on hinge last week. She lives in a neighbouring city which is an hour away from my place. We’re both looking for something casual like a friends with benefits kinda thing. We hit it off pretty well and I asked her out to drinks sometime this weekend. She said she’d love to hangout with me. I was pretty happy with that and told her we could grab drinks around 8 pm this Saturday.
She then told me we could go clubbing later and I could stay over at her place for the night. Do you guys think it’s a good idea to stay over on the first time meeting her itself? I’m very confused as I’m scared to promise something that I’m not entirely sure about doing.
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I’m of the opinion that you shouldn’t need to drive more than 30 minutes for a FWB. I’d think it would be chill and spontaneous.
>I (21M) matched with this girl (19F)
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>I asked her out to drinks sometime this weekend
Is this the UK or Europe? Are you getting her drinks??
It’s not a commitment to stay over. If you meet and you’re not feeling the vibe, you can leave. But if it goes well then you can stay. Don’t drink too much so you can stay coherent.