We are Tess & Kels, co-founders of Squirm ([https://www.getsquirmy.com](https://www.getsquirmy.com)), a platform dedicated to sexual communication.
We are currently in production on a podcast called Porn Nerds ([https://www.getsquirmy.com/pornnerdspod](https://www.getsquirmy.com/pornnerdspod)), a 5-part series on porn, including discussion on how it positively and negatively impacts people’s lives, destigmatizing the overall topics of porn and sex, plus peeks behind the scenes and interviews with experts and industry insiders. This co-production of Squirm and BOOM ([https://www.boomintegrated.com/](https://www.boomintegrated.com/)) is set to launch in June 2024.
We are specifically looking to the Reddit community for personal anecdotes and answers to the following three questions.
1. Have you turned to porn or OnlyFans/cam models to experience sexual fantasies or desires that you don’t choose to experience with a partner?
2. If yes, please share more about the choice to turn to porn/OnlyFans/cam models to experience fantasies as opposed to experiencing them with a partner.
3. Has engaging with porn/OnlyFans/cam modeling positively or negatively changed your experience with vulnerability in intimate relationships?
Responses in the comments will be used as the basis for discussion in the show. No usernames or identifying details will be included.
If you would like to take part, please feel free to share your responses to any or all of the above questions in the comments. Thank you – T&K