So theres this girl ive been talking to, she’s from my school but we only talk on snapchat. Whenever we see eachother we make eye contact and start blushing, too nervous to say anything. Wtf do I do. I really like her bruh. And schools almost over. If I don’t start talking to her, we probably won’t hang out this summer. And I REALLLLY want to.
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Maybe ask her to hang out with you through snap, that way you guys can meet at a more comfortable place than school and there’s not so much pressure 🙂
One word. CONFIDENCE. You can do it. You will do it. Now go do it bruh!
Precommitment helps me a lot in situations like that.
I get really anxious (and irrational) when the time comes to say something important. So the trick is to commit yourself before you are super anxious (precommitment).
Like someone else said, I usually snap them beforehand. I say “can I talk to you about something important today”, that way they’ll ask me about it and I’ll talk even though I can barely talk I’m so anxious.
So I see two options:
1. Snap her and ask if you can hang out with her at whatever time and place works.
2. Ask your friends to get you to go up to her and talk when the time comes.
I’m sure there’s more ideas out there, but those should work.
I hope that helps you! I know you can’t just turn off being nervous, but there’s nothing to worry about and you’ll be happy you talked no matter what happens!
When school is out, are you going to be far away from each other?
Take action! I know that it’s easier said than done and believe me, I know what that nervousness and fear feel like, but coming from the other side, the regret of not taking action when I had the chance is wayyyyyyyy worse than the fear. I believe in you! You can do it! Good luck!
Just gotta do it. I know, easier said than done but I’m also in a similar situation.
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