so; my boyfriend and I have been together for around 5 months. he’s my first everything really, and we’ve been having sex for a while. But, every time, we have sex, he pushes me away, and gets annoyed if i touch him. i always respect it and use that time to check my phone on the edge of the bed (i’m writing this as i do that lol) but, i’m a huge touchy-feely person. and a big fan of aftercare, so it makes me feel kind of disconnected. i’ve communicated that before, but he’s stated this is something he needs to do. i’ve accepted it, but hearing from other people what he might be thinking (because he doesn’t know, or care to tell me.) would help me empathize with him a little more.
i’ve heard of post but clarity n all that. but if any dude could shed some light on his perspective, i’d appreciate it!