Dating women, how often do you get the ick?

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1. I mean, I don’t think I’ve ever been dating while simultaneously having an ick problem in my aquarium, but it’s pretty rare in general. I keep good pH balance.

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3. Okay, well first of all I don’t like the term ick.. But when I was still dating, there are a lot of things guys did to make me feel unattracted to them. Small things that showed they were inconsiderate. Like not opening the door for me, or walking behind me while I’m going up stairs. I feel like a lot of guys from this generation never really learned proper manners

4. If you mean being put off by something they did, sometimes, but only on the first date. Because if they did something off putting, then I would never agree to a second date.

5. Rarely, but I got the ick one time when I kissed a guy and his lips were chapped, felt like kissing sandpaper or something🤢

6. When I noticed the first time hanging with this man he gossiped about his ‘friends’..if he can’t keep their lives somewhat private than what is he going to do down the line with me? I’d love to gossip with my man but not after just meeting..