We’ve been talking for 3 weeks, met once because she likes to take things slow but we text everyday, sometimes for hours (She doesn’t like phone calls either). She’s absolutely lovely in person but when she’s texting she can come across as mean and hurtful sometimes. I get that she’s probably trying to tease but I feel like there’s a line there? Usually when I try to be funny I joke about either myself via self deprecating humour or the situation. For example, I sprained my shoulder pretty badly to where it hasn’t healed for months. I can’t sleep properly or exercise or do anything with my left arm at all, she’d constantly call me an old grandpa. That’s relatively minor but I tried to initiate a conversation about hard boundaries when it came to sex and I wanted to tell her that I’ve been through some pretty severe trauma but just as we were getting into it she joked about me being a virgin with the laughing emoji so that conversation was shut down.
Just seems I can’t tell her anything personal out of fear that she’ll make fun of me. I would break it off but I’m just worried that I won’t be able to match with anyone again.