Guys who found out that another man such as a friend or relative of theirs was a domestic abuser, how did you feel? What signs do you think there were?

Looking at some stats: “Over 1 in 3 women (35.6%) and 1 in 4 men (28.5%) in the US have experienced rape, physical violence, and/or stalking by an intimate partner in their lifetime.”

And in domestic violence cases: “Males perpetrate 95% of all serious domestic violence. 6. The U.S. Department of Justice estimates that 95% of reported assaults on spouses or ex-spouses are committed by men against women.”

Considering our population these are huge numbers.

How did you feel about the guy when you found out? What happened to your relationship?