I finished my PhD in Dec 2022 and got married in may 2023. I have ADHD and I suffer from PCOS. I have also have low levels of Vit-D (8) and Vit B12. So it makes me feel tired all the time. I have shifted with my husband to his work city after marriage and finding a job here has been hard. It is the silico valley of my country and I have a biology background. My husband is sweet and caring but he thinks I am not doing enough to get a job. I cook all the meals and clean, but he points out using humour that I don’t put the grocery out for days or that I don’t keep the laundry folded and clean. I also get tired after cooking and eating lunch and usually nap for an hour. He works during that time. Its true , he is very hard working. But I have also applied to 100s of jobs with no luck, and I do cook scrumptous meals for us both everyday. Am I doing something wrong?