Me 28F and my 27M boyfriend are long distance and have been together for 3-4 months.
Things are pretty good and we were quite serious quite quickly and then it felt like we both pulled away a bit.
He wanted to talk about the future last weekend and discuss how things are going etc. he didn’t end up bringing the conversation up so I assumed things were good.
Last night he said we still need to talk in a couple of weeks when I see him again, and he said not to worry it’s just to figure out the future and how things will work with his job and moving in together etc.
I’m probably overthinking it but I just feel like it’s a bad thing and maybe he’s going to break it off.
Can this actually be a good thing and strengthen us as a couple?
Tl:dr my boyfriend wants to talk about the future, can this be a good sign?