I went on a date tonight with someone that I have known for years. He never gave off vibes that I shouldn’t trust him so we met up at a place for drinks and to “catch up.” He would not stop touching me or grabbing my jeans and arms when i tried to stand up. I was trying to make it obvious without being rude. We left after about an hour and a half and I was going to my car (he parked on the other side of the lot) and followed me. He kept saying he couldn’t leave yet and at my car he pushed me into it and tried to kiss me. I didn’t know what to do and wanted it to end and so i pecked him back and he said “you know i hate when you push me off of you” and tried again so i scrambled into my car. He seems to not get any hint that I was having a bad time. I know i’m afraid to upset men or be rude because they have been scary to me in the past when I set boundaries but I’m working on it. Do I tell him that I was uncomfortable or just ghost him? I feel really terrible and bad. He brought up my ex multiple times too and was asking if he hated me and that hurt my feelings and he would say my sad feelings were all a ploy. It was extremely weird. I’m 32 and he is 30. What should i do?
Thank you in advance