I’ve been hooking up with this guy I met a month ago three times in total now. I’m pretty new to sex despite being 26F so this is exciting to me. The first time happened after a party and we were drunk, and I remember him saying that he had an anal plug that he liked to use. He also had a fleshlight and let me use it on him. I thought it was really hot. The second time we met and had sex he let me use the fleshlight again on him but he hasn’t mentioned the anal plug at all, and I think he was a bit embarrassed about it when I mentioned the sex toys he had.
I was wondering if I could bring it up to him next time we see or if I should wait whether he wants to bring it up himself or not. I would just love to see him use it. I don’t know if I’m that familiar with him yet however.
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> I would just love to see him use it.
Pretty much say this exact thing to him the next time you’re meeting up
He already expressed his interest in using the butt plug. You don’t have to fear anything, if you’re down for it, let him know and I’m sure he will be happy about it 😉
It takes exactly 1 sober conversation where you make the conversation topic absolutely safe and you will be good from that point forward.