I’m 28yr old woman, I get compliments from men and woman so I feel like I am attractive.I’ve been noticing older men hitting on me in person 99% of the time. When I say older I mean 55+ year old men. I appreciate compliments from anyone but men my age just don’t approach me.
My best friend is a guy and when I meet people he knows they compliment me behind my back (men & women) and he informs me of it once we leave the event but again no one says anything to my face. I have brought this dilemma up to my best friend and he suggested men around our age are tired of being rejected or may be shy. Is that true?
I’m nice, respectful and easy to talk to but are we in the era that women approach first? I’m ok with it,well sorta I will have a hard time breaking the old school habit of only speaking to a man if he approaches me.
I also have this issue, I have always been oblivious to people “checking me out” because usually they do it while my back is turned. Then someone I’m with makes a comment about specific men checking me out in obvious ways and I’m like 🤷🏽♀️ nobody talks to me sooo…am I doing something wrong??? 🫠 What cues make a man feel comfortable enough to approach a woman?