okay so i only want to know whether and should i morally and ethically the best right decision but also realistically and pragmatically if i should let him grow into my ideal guy because he says so desperately that he wants to be that and loves me or leave him and be with my ideal guy if i find one in life which is a matter of probability against reality because c’mon how often does it actually happen in life and give a good empathetic answer and not raw answers please cause i’m really so heartbrokenly confused now so what should i do..? i don’t wanna leave him cause he’s one of the best like the best person i’ve met but also not my ideal person also so what should i do
tl;dr: confused about relationship and choosing right person