M40ish. Been back on “the scene” for almost a decade since a divorce. Been through apps, bars, organic meetups etc and I’ve found this to be my reality. Those seeking monogamy are not willing to give anything a chance past one or two dates looking for “the spark” or a “romantic connection…” But at this point I’ve had several short/mid term relationships with women who are admittedly seeing multiple other people, that have provided me with more engagement and stability than those seeking monogamy or “the one.” But eventually with those partners it comes down to them not being fully emotionally available, nor desiring a closed, long term relationship. My question to y’all is, where did I go wrong, or when did dating in modern society lose its way?