We’ve been seeing each other for 3 months, and in a relationship for a month now. Everything was going perfect, she wanted to see me regularly, made time to come over, watch a movie, do activities. Sex was very frequent also, both happy with the performance. Some weird things started to show when we took some pictures while enjoying some time together, and I posted the picture on my Instagram, she posted it too. Days after posting the story, she asked me out of nowhere to not post eachother frequently, since there can be people who talk too much and can eventually ruin what we have. I didn’t pay much attention to it, but later it came up to my mind so I put that down also. Fast forward 5 days ago, all of that started slowly fading away
Talking on video chat, tells me shes going to sleep around 10PM which is totally unusual since she used to go to bed later on in the night. So I wish her a good night, hang up. Minutes later I remember to ask her something urgent, her phone was disconnected, and thats what messed me up – leading me to believe more and more about what I am thinking about this. I left a message letting her know what I was calling her back about, and I get a message back at 12 am telling me that she was sleeping. She sends me a nude pic and I notice spots on her breasts like hickeys, so I ask her what is that and she tells me that it is from scratching and whipped out a big story about it. We went out for lunch and she wanted to post a picture of the food, asked me if I wanted her to tag me but asked me that if she tagged me, would my username be visible on top of hers. Very, very suspicious. The next day was either normal, or I just wasn’t aware enough, I just know for a fact that it wasnt sleeping at 10pm. Although the next day the same thing happens again – but this time once she gets home, she texts me to not call her since she cannot talk, no reason and out of nowhere. I did not even bring up calling her on the phone. I get short replys in the meantime, I brought up sex and she told me that she was not feeling “sexual” at the moment, dissapears at 10PM without texting good night, like usual. But texts occasionally (she was sleeping according to her, again), sends me a message at 12 AM and gone once again. I spoke to her about it, I know that its not okay to expose your insecurities but oh well, right?
She first tells me that she knows how it is to overthink things in life, but then tells me that she can’t help me around this – and the conversation stopped there. Today, she went to “sleep” at 9:40 PM on a Saturday night, and no reply for the whole night.
For me, I honestly don’t feel the same about her, after all of these things happening in a 5 day period. I am considering breaking up with her, but I need an opinion. Thanks in advance.