Ok, this will be somewhat of a long post. My wife has a history of low self esteem. At first it manifested itself by jealousy. Now she gets her validation by sexting and posting online.
Back story – 1 year ago, my wife approached me via a phone call while I was at work. She said that she wants to take a trip to Chicago to meet a man for a weekend BDSM fuck fest ( for a lack of better terms). This guys is a bar tender from Colorado and prides himself in being some sort of Christian Grey (50 shades of grey) type of persona.
I reluctantly agree, to my ultimate demise, to let her go on this weekend venture. She had 2 kids when we met, married at a young age and never had a sexual past. I guess I thought I was being the bigger person and thought this would slow her to say she had her “slut phase”, which seems to be such a common yearning for women that marry young.
Now she seems to go behind my back, create Reddit profiles, text random guys and Snapchat her 1-time-only Christian Grey nude videos and photos in a flirtatious manner.
Married over 15 years, 4 kids. Distraught.