I had to start going to his place because he lives an hour away and lost his car in a car wreck. i’ve been staying at his place and it makes me uncomfortable his entire family being there and he still has his bunk bed with his exes name written on the bottom bunk and the first thing i see when i wake up in the morning. he has trinkets from past relationships everywhere that he says don’t mean anything. it just bothers me how i am so independent at 24 and have been living alone since 18. I also pay more in rent and other bills but he consistently “doesn’t have money” for us to go on a vacation or do something really fun. we have been dating for over a year and i don’t know what to do. is it bad to feel this way?