A bit long one, but I need honest answers and also sorry for my english.
I’m (19f) work as a cashier in a big factory’s bakery and there is this guy, who asked for my whatsapp and we’ve been talking with eachother.
For context, he’s older and from another country, we don’t speak the same mother language we mostly communicate in english verbally and when he texts me he makes the effort to put it in google translate and paste it in my mother tounge.
He’s very sweet, have good manners (most customers are not familiar with the words please and thank you and barely make an effort to try to communicate) but he’s always treats me and the staff the way people should, if that makes sense.
He’s very kind and his not at all bad looking, my coworkers find him attractive, but I don’t.
And that’s the problem. I have very bad experiences with relationships with men I didn’t find physically attractive, but he’s incredibly kind. But for the love of God I do not find him attractive as a man and that’s kind of a turn off for me. But I also know that no man has ever been a gentleman to me like he is.
I also don’t want to call this thing off because I don’t find him phsyically attractive but I know myself and I know it would bother me. I hate to be this way but I just can’t find him attractive.
So should I start a relationship with him and risk of calling it off later because of this or should I just call it off now before it gets serious?
And please only honest, serious advices because I can’t deal with this anymore on my own.