Partner and I were very intimate in the beginning of the relationship. Which makes sense. It’s been 2 years with him and he is still pretty turned on. I’m just not. We argue so much and it bothers me. I feel like I can’t be intimate with him because it seems like he isn’t putting the effort to be more romantic with me. He lacks affection towards me which makes me want to drift away when he all of a sudden wants to start something intimate with me. I’ve been very vocal about this to him, which causes more arguments. I want to be more intimate of course, it’s just so hard when my feelings aren’t aligned. Any advice???