Sucking toys vs orgasms
Without going into super long details, I haven’t came from anything besides a clit sucking toy for the past 3-4 years. Sex life went downhill, but I was able to still get my Os with self play. I have a new partner now that actually puts forth the effort to get me to O (previous haven’t cared enough). He gets me right to the edge but I just can’t seem to get over that edge. He’s sooo incredibly good with his fingers and tongue that I should be able to get there so easily. He takes his time and doesn’t give up easily. But I cant figure out if I am just too much in my head or I have ruined my chances at having an O at the hands of someone else because I haven’t came to anything besides the clit sucker?
What do I do? I need all the advice I can get as I want this for myself but also for him too!