My wife and I recently bought a bullet vibrator, and I have tried to use it on her many times, but I can’t get it quite right. The pressure tend to be in the wrong place, too hard/too soft, too much on her clit (her clit is very sensitive, and the only time it can tolerate direct contact is when I’m eating her out), and I just can’t get it to work.
What we have been doing lately is that she uses the vibrator while I finger her, which works really great! But I want to find a vibrator that I can use on her without her help, so that I can take care of her 100% and she can just relax and enjoy it. What kind of vibrator would be suitable for this? She has no experience using vibrators herself other than the bullet vibrator we bought.