For the record, I don’t actually consider my life to be boring, I enjoy my life quite a bit. However, I do think that most women would consider me a “boring” guy. I work a 9-5 office type job, I save most of my money, I am a homebody for the most part, my hobbies are going to the gym, gaming, watching sports. I don’t have any huge aspirations or anything right now, I just like living a simple life, and I’m quite happy with the way things are right now.
Is it possible for a guy like me to find a girlfriend? Are there any girls out there who actually like men like this? Are there any women out there who are like this themselves? Feels like in order to find a gf these days you have to be super driven, super motivated, super passionate about something, always aspiring to move up in the world, always doing something interesting or spontaneous or living an extravagent life. However, that’s just not me. Do I basically just have to change my entire personality to fit this description if I want any hope of finding a gf? Or will there be a girl out there who just likes me for who I am?