I was having sex with a guy I’d been on a few dates with last week. He paid me lots of compliments about my appearance before I took my clothes off. However, during sex he was on top and he looked frustrated, like my body wasn’t complying and then he said, ‘your hips are too big – I’m getting cramp.’ He also said I have the body type of a woman who should be ‘being fucked by a hairy Turkish man or a rugby team’. Obviously, I’m never going to see this man again.. but it has left me feeling incredibly sad, lonely and vulnerable. I have issues around my weight in general, i was called fat a lot by my dad growing up and once or twice at college by a group of dickheads. I just wish these people knew that these comments are so painful and genuinely stay with you forever. I would not even describe my body type as over weight- I’m a curvy, size UK 12/14.