Heya! So I (28 M ) came across this girls insta profile, thought she(27 F I think) was really pretty. I dont often slide into the dms, but after I followed her, she followed back… and I saw on her story she went to this bar/arcade that I went to recently. So I replied to her story saying how cool of a place it is coz I went there recently, we ended up chatting back and forth for like 3 weeks or so.. we seemed to be getting on… we’d usually send a few msgs to each other at a time and then reply to it when we can usually the next day… she stopped replying for a week and then eventually got back to me and also apologised saying she’s been really busy. I then got back to her msgs a day later thinking we’d go back to chatting, but she hasn’t replied since.. and I’ve been wanting to ask her out for coffee or something…
It’s been about 2 weeks now.. I didn’t want to ask her out too soon as we don’t know each other… I was wondering if popping her a msg to check in would be a good idea.. a part of me wants to just leave it, but if I did msg I don’t know what to say.. I don’t want her to like reply out of guilt or pity y’know … she has been active on insta since she stopped replying and has viewed my story whenever I’d post something.. I was thinking of asking if she’d be keen to grab a coffee sometime, and maybe leaving my number for her to send a msg if she’s interested. no pressure..
any tips or suggestions? Should I just accept this as being ghosted or attempt a msg.. Thanks:)