My (23F) Friends (23-24F) Constantly Make Comments About my Boyfriend (28M) that make me feel uncomfortable, how do I proceed?
So the title doesn’t really explain the situation that well, and I didn’t really know what to say but here’s the full story.
My current boyfriend and I had met at the local gym years ago, to put it bluntly, my current boyfriend was obese when I first met him, it’s been 3 years since we initially met, and he looks like a literal different person, he’s lost like 150 pounds, and hes in way better shape, and is an incredibly attractive man.
I’m not going to lie, I understand it makes me shallow to an extent, but I was attracted to his motivation, commitment, and he also never asked me out when he was obese(to be honest I probably would’ve said no, it is what it is, I wasn’t sexually attracted to him back then, and I wouldn’t have given him a chance in the past, at least if I’m honest with myself, that’s probably the reality.
Still, I’ve fallen for the man he is now.
Whatever, that’s not the big deal, the big deal is a few of my friends constantly make comments about it, saying things like “be honest you wouldn’t have dated him before”, or “I knew you were only into hot guys”, one even said something like “I don’t blame you, I’d fuck him now too”
Like I get it, he’s attractive now and he wasn’t before, but it doesn’t have to be something brought up constantly, and joking about how you’d fuck him isn’t cool to me.
I try laughing it off, but I’m getting frustrated.
TL;DR A few of my friends make comments about my boyfriend, some sexual, and I feel it’s disrespectful.