My husband (M58) hid from me that he bought a classic car for 25k, he has not told me anything about it. I’ve mentioned in the last months we need to buy a house, he says a house is a liability. I pay mortgage, utility bills, so he can saves for a house mortgage- but he prefers to buy another car. He has 4 so far and a bike. My car is an old one, and I want to buy a newer one, but I cant afford it since 60% of my salary goes to pay our bills. He has an studio that he pays on his own. I don’t know what to make of this. Advice? How can I handle this? He makes 3 or 4 times what I make in a month. I thought I could be involved in our finances if most of my income will be spent on our bills. Help please!