How do I [m30] stop giving my gf [f26] insecurities?
Well, I’ve been with my gf for a long time, we are a serious couple.
After living like shit for the past 10 years, I decide that I need a change, I’m going to the gym 4 times per week, I’m trying to find decent clothes and a haircut that work with my face.
I just wanna feel good with myself, I want to see myself on the mirror and be proud of my reflection, I just wanna beat my depression, this time for real.
The thing is, I’m also saving money for a working holiday program, of course, I’ll return to my country when it’s over.
Last night I was checking clothes with my gf, stuff that I want to try, and I could feel her insecurities, she just told me that I’m gonna be pretty, and have a long of attention and also, I’ll be going to another country.
We have talked about it many times, I still don’t know if I’m going, maybe i reacted badly, but Honestly I’m kinda tired of it, and just told her to stop it.
I understand her point, I understand her insecurities, how can I stop making her feel so insecure?