Hi so I’m only 17 M and I know I’m still young but there’s something I still battle with in dating and that’s looks and personality. Now for me (just personal preference) the person I’m dating has to be my type and pretty. I’ve tried expanding my taste and I’ve tried it with other races but I just don’t like it. My type is literally short Hispanic guys with fluffy hair lmao. But on a serious note when the guy isn’t my type I feel a disconnect and I know that’s very shallow but I don’t mean to be that way. I kinda do it for my own good also, meaning that I should just date someone cause they pretty and have a personality I like, where as if I date someone who’s unattractive it’ll hurt me and them even more. But I wanna see a bigger picture and the funny thing is, is that these men I like, They barely got time to talk or their hard to get to. But seriously I wanna stop feeling sick and shallow. Even though these men also do have personality’s that I enjoy too but i kinda feel like that it’s better with a pretty face but I wanna see a bigger picture. Sorry if this all is stupid