I went over Instagram on his phone and saw something what appeared to be a list of people you may know then the list disappeared. He saw me had his phone and took it back. I asked to see what what I saw was and he refused saying that I’m looking for an excuse to violate his privacy. He said that I should trust him and that what I saw was probably nothing. I told him yes it was probably bugging but I just need to closure to know what it was. He said he doesn’t need to justify himself for something that I don’t even know what it was. After that he called me insecure and that I act as if I devalue myself. I apologized to him from my part for making a big deal out of the situation and I demanded an apology from him where he said that he has nothing to apologize for. He didn’t call me insecure nor that I devalue myself but rather my decision to act that way. I feel bad because he refused to apologize. I don’t know if he is gaslighting me or what but it hurts me deeply but even so he stands on his ground that he is right… I don’t know what to do. I don’t know if I can get over it or if I should break up. Please advise.
TLDR; boyfriend calls me insecure and won’t apologize