I am 37F and considering getting back out there soon.
I know I have a lot to offer to the right person, and I’ve spent some time “doing the work” so I don’t bring past issues into the future. I like to have fun, enjoy life, and care a lot about the people around me. My boyfriend picking has been questionable but all learning lessons.
I am a little scared to date from what I hear/see. Lots of ghosting, people being jerks, etc.
I met my ex online so I know all hope is not lost.
I know it’s going to take some work but I’m curious what has your experience been? I am trying to be strategic to hopefully find more matches that are looking for what I’m looking for. I don’t want to be penpals I want to build a solid friendship with someone and build off of that.
I don’t know how to convey that all smoothly and without sounding a certain way. But I def want to attract guys that want something serious. All I know is how to be myself and be transparent
I’m curious how it is out there from a male perspective. What are things that turn you away or off from someone?