**TL;DR;**: A 19-year-old seeks advice on navigating a transition in his 1 1/2-year relationship, where his girlfriend wants to evaluate their dynamic with less contact. He’s committed to supporting her while expressing the value of their relationship, seeking insights on how to strike the right balance without pressuring her.
We’ve been together for about 1 1/2 years now. Recently, she communicated to me that she wants to take a step back and evaluate how she feels when we spend less time together and have less contact, although she doesn’t want a complete break. She loves me, and I love her too. She’s just unsure about what to do next.
This decision has left me feeling a bit uncertain about how to proceed, but I’m determined to support her through this process. While I understand her need for space and reflection, I also want to ensure that she knows I’m here for her and that our relationship is a priority for me. I’m committed to finding a balance that respects her feelings while also nurturing our connection.
Now, I’m seeking advice on how to navigate this period of reduced contact and show her that staying with me is worth it, that our relationship is worth investing in. However, I don’t want to force anything on her. While I’m young and unsure if she’s the love of my life, I definitely don’t want to have any regrets about not trying. Any suggestions or insights would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance.