I just started seeing this girl and she’s really cool. We’re attracted equally and she talks about future small plans after 2 dates, like cooking together or whatever. No sex yet but some making out. When I kiss I am the slow and sensual type. Of course I use tongue but I’m not shoving mine down her throat. We were kissing earlier on the sofa and she said I’m not letting her kiss me because my mouth is “barely open”, so I opened it and she tried to jump inside 👅 full tongue like a dog against a window.
Super turn off for me to say the least. I like small kisses of course with tongue but then like to tease around the chin, neck and ears, and have been told by many, many women that I’m a great if not the best kisser they’ve kissed. They say it drives them crazy.
Needless to say this style of kissing is kind of a big turn off for me. I don’t need this wide open tongue pressing….I don’t even know what call it. Is it possible to train her in some way? For me there’s always been either bad kissers and good kissers, and that was that. Does anyone have experience with getting them to change their style?