I (24F) have been talking to this guy (30M) for about a month, we’ve known each other for a little while, we talked before but it’s only gotten more serious recently. He asked me out on a date and we went to brunch! Physically he ticks all the boxes and has a good personnality but he spent the majority of the time talking about HIS job, HIS parents, HIS past, etc.. maybe a question about me here and there but it left me with the feeling that he didn’t really care to get to know me better. I tried asking him direct questions hoping he’d ask something personal back but no luck. I tell myself maybe it was the nerves or something. Knowing this was only our first date and we agreed to go on a second one, is this something I should bring up to him? Do I wait until the second date is over to see if he notices or not? Not sure how to go about this, my plan was to ask him during the second date how he’s finding things so far, if there was anything we could discuss but idk