I’m currently reading ‘Come together’ by Emily Nagoski, and I’ve been pondering this question throughout the day.
I think for me, I want to feel wanted by my partner. I want to feel alive with that special heightened way desire makes you feel. I want to feel 100% accepted with all my perceived flaws. And most of all, I want to feel free, just lost in the sensations and having a break from everyday stresses and thoughts.
What do you really want when you want sex?