My partner (of more than a year) and I were playing around today. We were cuddling on the couch and I started blowing him until he came. We went back to watching tv for a while until I asked him to tie me up. Not for sexual reasons at first, mainly just because I was stressed and had lots on my mind and bondage makes me feel calm. Eventually after playing around with the rope for a bit, we had some fun which was focused on me. I came a few times. By this time, it had been at least two hours since he had cum and he seemed keen for more. He was really hard so I got started again. I ended up on my knees on the floor in front of him while he sat on the edge of the bed and I was using my hands on him. He seemed to really enjoy it at first. Then I started talking to him.
I’m not usually great at dirty talk and I don’t normally have a clear enough head to say anything while we’re having sex but because I was focusing on him this time I was able to do it.
I’ve asked him so many times before what he likes and wants and his response has always been “I want to make you feel good/I want to make you cum/etc”. He also seems to enjoy hearing me moan when I’m enjoying stuff and watching me touch myself. And he’ll ask me about when I masturbate. In his dirty talk to me he says stuff like “I can’t wait to see you cum”.
So I started saying things like “you’re so hot”, “you make me so horny”, “I think about you every time I touch myself”, “you’re so good at making me cum”, etc
Anddddd he went soft. He also bear hugged my face and groaned and when I asked what was wrong, he said he got embarrassed with the compliments.
Should I try saying different stuff? Or try the same stuff again another time? Or nothing?