My partner and I haven’t had sex for three years (together for 10, married for 6). We love each other a lot, have physical intimacy (cuddling, holding hands), a lot of trust and fun and excitement in our relationship. But health issues and other things have meant we haven’t had sex for a long time, even though we are both attracted to each other.
I think now the hard part is just getting started again as we’re so used to just not having sex. Has anyone reigniting a sexless marriage? How did you do it? What helped?
I wish we could just have sex tomorrow but it isn’t that easy for us mentally.