Me (22F) and my boyfriend (21M) have a good sex life, but there a few hiccups that I’m hoping to get resolved. He was a virgin until we met, and told me he watched a LOT of porn. He told me that since we’ve met he has stopped though. The first couple times we had sex it didn’t exactly work out. He could not finish or stay hard, I’m assuming it has something to do with the porn thing. Now he has no trouble staying hard but it takes a very long time for him to finish. And I can almost never get him to finish by giving him head. He also has to go very fast and very hard in order for him to get off. Is there any way to help/change how long it takes him or what it requires to make him come? He feels bad that we cant have quickies and that he can’t finish from oral or slow sex. I want to help him resolve these issues and make him a little less stressed about it.