I (21F) have been struggling with being satisfied in bed with male partners. I enjoy sex with men and do enjoy it but I’m missing the build up of tension in your “zone” that eventually leads to orgasm. I just can’t seem to get over the edge with partner.
Like give me one of my vibrators or my right hand along with my imagination or some good porn and I can come in 60 seconds or less no issues.
But with a guy in bed? Nada.
To be honest I have a hard time asking for what I want in bed and I’m scared to ask a guy to take his time pleasuring me because I know it’ll take some time for me to come with a partner.
It’s like I can feel the sensations on my body when I’m being touched but I struggle to translate them into proper sexual pleasure even though I’m enjoying it. It’s like I’m anxious and can’t truly relax and feel the pleasure.
I’ve tried smoking weed or taking a few shots prior to sex and it helps a bit but not much.
Any advice for me? I wanna start enjoying the sex I’m having to the fullest.