As the title says, maybe I’m venting, maybe I’m looking for advice. I know plenty have said and been in the same position. I know it’s bad to generalise, important to be realistic, self-assured, confident blah blah.
I’m just done. I get it, meeting people in the wrong places etc. I’ve gone to the gym, I’ve worked on myself, I’m trying to be the best version of me I can be. Hopeful, kind, strong, and joke around with everyone I can.
But whatever it is women want, I don’t have and I’m tired of trying. I get it, this line of thought is bad, women are people who want different things. Online dating is always a mess etc.
But I’m just not there yet, I’ll keep working on myself, not hold out for anything. But i don’t think I’ll take a chance on anything serendipitous either, I’m done. The risk is too great when 90% of women don’t want what I have. So why take a chance on the 10%. Odds are I won’t be part of the rare healthy relationship successes of today. So I’ll just keep my friends. Thanks.