There’s this inner slut that lies dormant within me (31F), and I am eager to get her out this year, to explore my sexuality, my fantasies, make (lots of) experiences. But I am shy (or that’s what I keep telling myself). It could also be that I am inexperienced. It could also be that I have ADD combined with perfectionism, and that I „need“ to do something perfectly at the first try or I failed. Or a combination of all above.
Btw English is not my first language, so please bear with me.
So there are several people with whom I want to explore a fwb/dating/casual situation. I’ve met them on dating apps, if that’s relevant to know. I’ve read so many times on this subreddit that communication is key for fulfilling (sexual) experiences, which I’m all for.
BUT what do you actually talk about? What do you mean by talking about sexual and emotional needs, wants, boundaries, desires, etc.?? Any specifics you could give me?
Also any scripts or acronyms or anything that is easy to follow along?
Secondly, HOW do you initiate these conversations with someone you haven’t built a deep emotional connection with?
Thanks to everyone taking their time to read and write something constructive. <3