am i ace/lesbian or is my boyfriend just bad at sex?
20f here. i’ve never really had sexual desire so it confuses me when my boyfriend talks about how much he desires me and looks forward to sex. i generally view sex as just a way to connect with him. i’ve never come during sex and i feel like he prioritizes his pleasure more than mine. it’s also messy and takes a long time. i generally don’t enjoy it. i’m confused if sex can get better or if i’m just ace.
the only time i have sexual thoughts in public is when i see a girl’s ass. i’ve never done anything sexual with a girl. i’m wondering if maybe i’m a lesbian..