We have been together 6 months and used to have sex 1-2 times a day. Lately he’ll come over for days at a time and maybe we will have sex once a week. I asked him why it’s been less and he said he just hasn’t been horny lately…i said that makes me sad and makes me feel that he’s not attracted to me and he said I shouldn’t feel that way bc hes just not horny and it has nothing to do with me.
He told me once that he was abstinent for 2 years so I know that sex isn’t the most important thing to him and I actually love that about him. However, I’ve also never been with a guy who wants it less than me (thats usually been me) and I truly don’t know how to not take it personally when I know I used to turn him on and basically he’s saying I dont anymore.
Any advice from men in similar situations?